Most religions of the world have the fundamental beliefs that are strikingly similar to the Ten Commandments. History has taught humanity that life does not seem to work well without such guiding principles. As responsible parents, we should have a parallel foundation of ten life skills that we impart part to our children. Your list will vary from mine, of course, but these are the ten essential precepts which I imparted to my son.
- Learn the basic life skills such as hygiene, cooking, cleaning, etc.
- Develop and maintain positive relations with friends and family.
- Keep a positive ‘can-do’ attitude exuding confidence and good self-esteem.
- Have strong ethics and values centered around honesty, morality and empathy for others.
- Develop strong communication skills, both verbal and written.
- Develop strong problem solving skills, curiosity, education, and rational thinking.
- Set goals and maintain the motivation to overcome life’s inevitable challenges.
- Appreciate the spiritual side of life.
- Keep healthy habits pertaining to diet, exercise, and lifestyle.
- Understand the tenets of financial literacy relating to money, saving, budgeting, and spending.
Many parenting books have been written on each of these ten topics, but I’d like to highlight the last one – #10. I propose that financial literacy alone has 10 essential skills that we should cultivate in our children. Giving them the gift of a money-wise toolkit along with your time will go along way to ensure their long-term success. It will be the proud legacy you leave and how you’ll be remembered.
These are my Ten Financial Commandments to teach your offspring.
- Start early and encourage your kids to embrace investing as a hobby. It’s intellectually stimulating and they’ll meet great people.
- Invest consistently and regularly. Don’t try to time the market. As of yet, no one has successfully created that algorithm.
- Warren Buffet famously described the magic of compounding as “the eighth wonder of the world.” He likened it to a snowball rolling down a long hill, accumulating more snow as it rolls. Do the math; it’s true.
- Avoid debt and leverage. Buying a house or college loan aside, credit card debt and onerous fees can ruin you.
- Ignore fads and hot tips. You’ll be inevitably late, pay too much and experience the bursting of the bubble eventually.
- Day trading is not investing, and it’s important to understand the difference. If you are an adrenaline addict and absolutely must day trade, then allocate a small percentage of your portfolio to this activity and consider it your “funny money” that’s expendable. Trading is indeed part of successful investing, but overtrading is not.
- Pay attention to fees. One percent a year may not sound like much, but when you do the calculations and look at a 10-15 year timeframe, you’ll lose out big-time. Fees represent your money that doesn’t get reinvested or compounded for you over the span of those 15 years.
- Be careful which assets you marry. Some have long-term handcuffs, high fees, unattractive risk-to-reward ratios and low probabilities of making you wealthier. I’ve never forgotten this famous quote from John Bogle, who founded Vanguard: “Don’t look for the needle in the haystack; buy the haystack.” In other words, buying the S&P 500 Index (SPY) is a reasonable strategy.
- Investing is a marathon, not a sprint. Young people often think that if they lose big, they’ll have many years to recover. My point is, why lose at all? Asset protection should always be a paramount objective throughout one’s life. Start young.
- Be action-oriented. Start today. Don’t procrastinate. Don’t make excuses. Buy a good investment book. (I humbly suggest the one I wrote with my son.) Start a free trial at StockCharts.com. Do some paper trading. You might discover you are the second coming of Warren Buffett!
In a spirit of full disclosure, it’s important that I acknowledge the other half of the equation in writing about the ten basic life skills and financial commandments instilled in my son. He was also raised by a devoted and well-educated mother who has an MBA and understands the markets as well.
The bottom line: teach your children about money management. If you don’t, you are intentionally placing them instead into the hands of that merciless professor called “Experience”. The tutorial will be ruthless, and the lessons learned will be costly and late.
Trade well; trade with discipline!
Gatis Roze, MBA, CMT
- Author, “Tensile Trading: The 10 Essential Stages of Stock Market Mastery” (Wiley, 2016)
- Developer of the “Stock Market Mastery” ChartPack for StockCharts members
- Presenter of the best-selling “Tensile Trading” DVD seminar
- Presenter of the “How to Master Your Asset Allocation Profile DVD” seminar
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